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Archive | August, 2009

Our Words Create Our Future

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Personal Development

By Larry Barkan 

I was recently coaching a person who told me that he would “try” to improve his relationship with a coworker but that it would be “very difficult” and that it would “take a lot of time to trust him.” 

Consider the words that are in bold above. Could it be that while this person thinks he’s merely describing the future, he’s actually creating it? Could it be that our words actually produce results in the real world? 

Consider these examples:

I was recently reading about Lanny Bassham, a former Olympic rifle shooter and “mental coach” whose clients include U.S. Olympic archers. Bassham notes that the archery community has a peculiar obsession with “target panic,” which refers to a malady sometimes suffered by champion archers who become so worried about hitting the target that they stop themselves from even attempting a shot. 

Bassham says that, “the words ‘target panic’ have induced an unnecessary amount of severity and concern about this condition among archers.” He concludes by noting that, “I think if they had a better word for it, they’d have a lot less problem trying to cure it.” (I’ve bolded those words for emphasis). 

In his book, The Perfect Mile, Neal Bascomb writes that, “On May 6, 1954, Roger Bannister became the first man to run the mile in less than 4 minutes, a barrier many experts had long considered unbreakable. What is remarkable is that Australia’s John Landy and New Zealand’s Peter Snell bettered his record that same year. Roger’s feat changed the thinking of people in countries all over the world.” (I’ve bolded those words for emphasis). 

What do these examples have in common? They all suggest that the key to unlocking our chains lies in the words we use to describe our world. 

Consider the possibility that if you want to know what stops someone from achieving a goal, listen to how the goal is described. Could it be that describing a goal as “difficult,” “strenuous,” or “tough” creates those outcomes and that talking about a goal as “achievable,” “exciting,” or “inspiring” creates outcomes that conform to those descriptions? 

Isn’t it amazing how we can predict the future? Or, perhaps, not so amazing. Perhaps the process is quite straightforward: We predict how the future will occur when we describe that future and then, naturally, live out that prediction. 

Or, as ancient wisdom has noted, “Be careful what you wish for. You may get it.” 

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The Importance of Life Balance

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Health & Wellness

By Sanjana Antony  

There are many aspects in life that you have to keep balanced in order to achieve total or overall health, security, and happiness. You need to improve each and every aspect to give your self a chance for growth and development. It is not very easy to achieve a balanced life but with enough determination and knowledge about how to do it, it is not impossible. 

One of the most important area or aspect of a person’s life is the body. You have to make sure that you will keep your body healthy and strong to be able to do and perform all of your duties and responsibilities. Eat a proper diet and keep your body fit by doing regular exercise or going to the gym. Aside from keeping the body healthy, these could also make you look more attractive. Feeling and looking beautiful will also contribute to the personal aspect of your life. 

The personal aspect includes your emotions, feelings, and the way you think about certain things. It is advisable to always maintain a positive outlook in life. Your mind is a very powerful organ as it could control your feelings and emotions. Don’t let negative feelings such as insecurity, self pity, sadness, and disappointment get the best of you. Thinking positive and being optimistic will do wonders. They will also help you achieve contentment in life that will eventually turn into happiness. 

There are other aspects of life that also contribute to a person’s total happiness and one of these is the financial aspect. Though it is true that money and material things should not be the focus of your attention, the fact still remains that this is very important in order for a person to survive in this world. Save money by keeping a part of your regular income or invest in something that could really return your investments. This will help give you a sense of security, peace of mind, and will prevent any financial troubles in the future. 

Although your present job could give you a steady source of income, it doesn’t mean that it’s the perfect job for you. It is also important that you like what you are doing because this will lessen or reduce the stress level that you get and will give you the motivation to improve your work performance. If you want to expand your knowledge, skills, and abilities, you could take additional education or personality development program which is another aspect of life and life is a continuous learning process. 

You should also have some time to improve your social life. Go out with your friends or spend some quality time with your family. This will somehow give you the feeling that you are being loved and that there are lost of people who love you and will always be there to support you. The spiritual aspect of your life is also important especially if you feel that you need some guidance or enlightenment during tough and hard situations. 

After a long time of hard work, it is advisable to take a break and reward your self with something that could make you relax and relieve you from stress, tension, and pressure from work. You can try out new sports or start a new hobby that will match your interests. It could be any kind of fun activities that you can do by yourself or with friends and family. A balanced life can do many great things that will make you completely healthy and happy.

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Parents – Is Your "Constructive Criticism" Destroying Your Children's Motivation and Self Esteem?

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Family & Parenting

By Pam Golden 

“Like a drop of water falling on a rock, daily messages of criticism gradually, imperceptibly leave a destructive effect on children.” – Thomas Gordon 

“The problem with you is you don’t enjoy your food! Why can’t you just chew it slowly instead of gulping it down?” Josie said to her 11-year-old son. 

What’s wrong with the picture?

It sounds so simple doesn’t it? Josie thought she was giving good, well-meaning advice – constructive criticism. Yet the effects of those small comments often left her son feeling humiliated, angry and resentful. As with most “constructive criticism,” Josie focused on what was wrong with her son. I call this “Storm Cloud Criticism” because, just like a storm can devastate a community, certain types of criticism can devastate your child’s self-esteem and motivation. 

Over time kids begin to see themselves as bad, irresponsible, thoughtless, dumb, inadequate, unloved, and even unlovable. This negative self-concept can carry into adulthood, crippling them for a lifetime. 

What to do instead – Give Gentle, Appealing Feedback

When you take a wrong turn while driving, the last thing you need is for someone to tell you how wrong you are. What you need is help getting on the right path with a method that is inviting. You can do that with what I call “Sunshine Feedback.”

When giving “Sunshine Feedback.” 

1. Start with a friendly beginning – how you start is usually how it ends. Instead of: “I’m tired of you wasting time watching television.” Try: “It looks like you’re really enjoying that show.”

2. Express your concern and ask for their ideas. Instead of: “You need to turn off television and do your homework now!” Try: ”I know you have homework tonight and I’m concerned you won’t get it done. When are you planning on doing it?”

3. Agree on a solution-what they come up with themselves they are way more likely to do. Instead of: “Alright, you said you’d get it done right after your television show, you better do it.” Try: “That sounds good, you’ll do your homework as soon as this show is over. Enjoy!”

4. Calmly follow-up: This may be the most critical step. When you take the time to calmly follow-up, your kids soon begin to take you at your word and they also begin to take their word seriously. If you let it slide, they begin to lose trust in you and in themselves. Instead of: “What’s the matter with you? You haven’t even started your homework and your show was finished ages ago.” Try: “I thought we agreed you’d do your homework right after your show. Can you get to it now?” OR Try: “You finished your homework right on schedule. That must feel good.”

5. Have a Happy Ending: How you end the encounter will linger and probably be how you start the next one.  No matter what happened, find a way to leave a sweet taste with both of you. If it’s gone well, say, “Thanks.” If it hasn’t gone well, you can say, something like, “Well. This didn’t turn out as well as I’d hoped, but thanks for sticking in there. We’ll do better next time.” 

Also, did you know that one type of praise can produce self-defeating behavior and anxiety, while another can move your kids to positive action? Changing a few words can make a night and day difference in your child’s life. If you like to get started learning how to give praise that motivates positive action while building self-esteem and confidence in your child please download my FREE Report on “The Amazing Impact of Effective Praise” at: http://www.basiclifeskillsforchildren.com/amazingpraise 

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Success! It's Right in Front of You!

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Workplace Support

By Jan Tincher  

Would you like to learn a new way to succeed? Here is an exercise to do just before you go to bed. Sit down and relax. Get ready to use your mind and visualize. Tell your brain that your body may be a little tired, but your brain is fully alert and able to visualize. 

Count yourself down slowly from 10 to 1. Take in a deep breath and take your time letting it out. As you are relaxed, visualize this: You are sitting in your favorite chair, very relaxed. In your hand is a remote control. You are looking at a 3 foot TV screen . . . and there you are on the screen. What are you doing? Here’s what you are doing. You are succeeding at something that you’ve never succeeded at before. 

What is different between the you on the screen and the you sitting there watching? The obvious one. The you on the screen is succeeding in something the you on the chair hasn’t been able to yet, and didn’t even know you could! 

You can tell by the way the you on the screen is smiling. It’s a smile you yourself have had when you have succeeded at something that was a big challenge! And you can see your work place behind the you on the screen, so you know the you on the screen succeeded at some sort of challenge at work. 

This is cool, huh? Well, how about succeeding at something in your spiritual life? Your financial life, social life, physical life, or your emotional life? We all have challenges in all areas of our lives at some point. But that’s OK. Challenges are just ways of showing us how to succeed. 

So, let’s go back to the remote control. It’s a pretty fancy gadget. And guess what — it has all of those areas listed on little buttons, right in front of you. Spiritual, financial, social, physical, and emotional. You push a button on the remote and the screen changes. You are still a success, but you are seeing yourself as a success somewhere else, maybe at home, maybe at someone’s house. 

You are smiling as you watch this, because you know that even when you go to sleep tonight you will continue being a success. That being the case, you keep pushing the buttons and visualize the success in all areas. When you are done, go to the one area that needs the most work.

Watch as you succeed over and over again in that area. Then, get up and go to bed and let your unconscious work, as you sleep, to bring that success into reality for you. 

Thanks for reading. 

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Entrepreneur, Do You Really Know Your Master Key For Success?

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Business Building

By Aditi Walsh  

Entrepreneurs today are inundated with claims by so many experts, each stating they have the key to your success. This has been especially endemic online. It could even be driving you crazy at times, eh? 

What’s amazing is if you have discovered your real success is inner-generated and you are living from your own deepest desires, then you are able to experience challenges and opportunities in a completely different light. 

Getting Stuck

Yet, there still may be those times when you just get stuck, even with the best of intentions. And you find it very hard to keep your focus on visioning and living in the success you so desire. You lose the feeling for it and get caught up in your old ideas and limitations. Success starts to slip away again, and stress quickly enters to fill the gap. 

When you do pick yourself up, you wonder what all the fuss was about. Or you berate yourself for having fallen into those old mental pictures and ideas in the first place. 

Does this sound familiar? The good news is you are not alone. As Tulshi Sen says, “Success cannot be bought or learned… it must be practiced. 

The Master Key

I found it really helps when I meditate on the success principles of Ancient Secrets Of Success For Today’s World to dissolve the old triggers. With practice, I am becoming better able to laugh it off, instead of using negative thinking to dissolve negative thinking. Two negatives do not make for a positive outlook, do they?

So how can you transcend the stressors of the day? Is there a ‘master key’ to free yourself from these de-energizers that are holding you back? If only you can remove your mind from sticking to your problems and instead free it to believe in the success you truly desire. 

Tulshi Sen shares, “Before a person can achieve anything, they must raise their thoughts and raise their belief level. You cannot fight against circumstances forever. It is tiring. You have to create new circumstances by raising your belief level.” 

Training The Mind

You have to convince your mind that you are going to be successful, no matter what your present circumstances are today. This journey of the entrepreneur is led by the heart, not the mind. The mind’s place is to follow the Vision set by the heart. 

When we get it backwards, chaos, confusion and doubt take over. And there goes your success. Fear unleashed results in stressful, limited thinking. 

And, you cannot convince the mind with the mind. That’s what caused this predicament in the first place. Nor can you trick the mind over the long term. You need to transcend the realm of the mind and enter your heart to anchor in your dreams and visions. Leave them there, where you can nurture them. 

Imagination Rules

Einstein said that you can’t solve a problem at the same level of thinking as you created it in the first place. He also said that imagination was more important than knowledge.

 

Imagination lives in the all-knowing heart. So the first priority is to find out your heart’s desires. Then you can take your trained and helpful mind along for your unique entrepreneur’s journey. 

Tulshi Sen will be holding a live, Free, Teleseminars as a prelude to his upcoming one day workshops this fall, called “Raise Your Belief Level with the Master Key for Success” in Vancouver and in Toronto. Go to end of blog post at http://budurl.com/ggqu for further details. 
Aditi Walsh is a conscious entrepreneur, helping people create and manifest their visions of success. She shares ideas and reviews of success strategies and tools for the online entrepreneur at http://webmarketingrebel.com 
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Which is correct:12 Midnight A.M. or 12 Midnight P.M.?

by Tj Helm on 08,31,0909 in Did You Know

Neither!

Twelve midnight A.M. and twelve midnight P.M., or 00:00 A.M. and 00:00 P.M., mean nothing at all. They are simply the midpoints that divide the day into two equal halves.

Each and every day begins exactly at midnight, and each A.M. begins precisely thereafter. Similarly, each P.M. begins immediately after noon. No meaning can be assigned to 12:00 A.M. (00:00 A.M.), or to 12:00 P.M. (00:00 P.M.). They are merely reference points meant to simplify timetables for us.

Along the same line, the Universal Day, established by the International Convention in 1884 in Washington, D.C., U.S.A., operates according to World Time, or Universal Time at Greenwich, England. The logic regarding Midnight and Noon also applies to Greenwich Mean Time, commonly referred to as GMT or Zulu time; Midnight and Noon represent markers, or “page breaks” in the day and in the night, and may be represented by 00:00 o’clock.

Greenwich, England also holds the distinction of being at the point of zero longitude, where East meets West. The 1884 international agreement also recognized this line of zero degrees longitude as the prime meridian, a point from which all points on the earth’s surface are measured.

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Personal Branding – How to Do it in 5 Easy Steps

by Tj Helm on 08,03,0909 in Workplace Support

By Jim Meisenheimer 

Personal branding for professional salespeople should be a high priority – unfortunately it isn’t.

Your personal branding can provide you with an unique competitive advantage if you take the time to develop it.

Here are five easy steps you can use to launch your personal brand.

1. What makes you different – I mean really, what makes you different from other salespeople? If you don’t give this any thought, don’t think you’re memorable from your customer’s perspective.

I often ask the question, “what makes you different from your competition” during my corporate sales training programs. I always get the same responses: honesty, reliable, experienced, problem solver, product knowledge, follow up, trustworthy etc.

While these qualities are admirable they won’t differentiate you from your competition because everybody believes they possess these qualities.

Just remember this – if you want to be remembered you have to be memorable!

2. What are you known for? Do you have specialized training? Do you have an advanced degree? Do you have 23 years of experience within a market subsegment?

For example, I have met salespeople with doctorate degrees who keep this a secret from their sales prospects and customers. Why in the world would you do this, when you could differentiate you from your competition?

Are you unflappable? Do you possess an extraordinary sense of humor? Do you possess any unique skills – like you’re scratch golfer or maybe a college football referee? Are you a gourmet cook? Do you breed dogs in your spare time?

What makes you different, makes you memorable.

3. Let people know what makes you different. You can communicate your uniqueness in ways you have never imagined before. I’ll give you 2 specific ways you can do this.

Prepare a special report on a topic that you have some experience and expertise in. Google makes doing research a snap. You create a title page, an about you page, the actual content pages, and you could end your special report with a short list of resources your sales prospects and customers would benefit from.

You could also write a book. If you happen to be a timid soul you could team up with two or three other salespeople. Imagine how your sales prospects and customers would react when you give them a book you’ve written. It automatically establishes you as an expert. It automatically sets you apart from your competition.

And here’s some very good news for you – you don’t even have to write the book yourself. You can visit www.elance.com and post a job describing the project and how much you’re willing to spend. You can probably get a special report, on any subject, for less than $125. You can probably get a book written for less than $400.

Think about this for a minute. How many salespeople do you know, who are working in your industry, are giving their sales prospects and customers special reports and books they have written? Probably not too many.

You see, personal branding is not about blending in, it’s about standing out. Doing things that no one else is doing creates a strong personal brand for you.

Your personality, unfortunately, isn’t enough to differentiate you from all the salespeople calling on your sales prospects and customers.

4. Most professional speakers have signature stories they tell. These stories are unique to the speaker. It’s their signature. As an entrepreneur or a professional sales person you can create a signature for yourself. For example, my e-mail signature includes this: 21 years . . . 522 corporate clients . . . 72.7% repeat business.

These 47 characters help create my personal brand – you can easily do the same thing.

What color did Johnny Cash favor? He was the man in black, wasn’t he? What color shirt does Tiger Woods always wear on Sundays? It’s always red isn’t it?

You don’t have to be famous to consider doing this. In fact doing this may help you to become better known in your industry.

You could always wear blue ties. You could always use a fountain pen to take notes during sales calls and to write short personal notes. Not too many salespeople are doing these things.

Another good example of a great signature is Thomas Jefferson’s signature – it really does stand out, doesn’t it?

5. Do something that says you’re different. Do something on the blank side of your business card. Think about what you can leave behind at the end of the sales call. In preparing for this article I did a Google search for the phrase, pencils personalized.

You can order these pencils in a variety of designs and colors for as low as 7 cents each. You can also imprint up to four lines of text on each pencil. The pencil becomes your business card.

Imagine including a sharpened pencil with your sales proposals with a short note saying, “We already sharpened our pencil for you.”

Finally, don’t assume you’re automatically different because of your DNA. You have to work at cultivating your uniqueness within your industry. Doing these five things will enable you to become the “Go to person” within your industry.

I hope you have fun working on your personal branding.

Being boring doesn’t get you anywhere.

Being different does!

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Self Confidence For Kids – 4 Tips to Help Your Child Gain Self Confidence

by Tj Helm on 08,03,0909 in Family & Parenting

By Pinky Mcbanon 

A growing-up child should be able to develop their self-confidence since it is fundamental in helping them to becoming a complete and whole individual and what that is not afraid to strive for the very best in order to achieve their goals and aspirations in life. Clothing and food alone will not make your child have the confidence and courage. Instead, it is mainly factors that are non-physical such as spending time and encouragement that can help your child develop self-confidence.

Below are 4 tips to help your child gain self confidence.

1.    The children will absolutely look up to their mother and father as role models. Children mimic everything about their parents; from the way they talk, walk, behave as well as dressing and other ways. One example for this is that when they have misunderstandings or problems whether it is from work and or aspects. It is very important not to discuss negative problem-solving ideas in front of the child so that they will not inherit it.

2.    When helping your children with their studies or home work be sure not to spoon feed them. You can do some part of their assignments before explaining clearly enough for them to do it by themselves. Aside from that this will also help you keep tabs on your children’s ability to learn things which are very important when it comes to the child’s self-improvement and confidence.

3.    Make your kid gets involved in some form of sports especially team games. It is not only good to build upon their strengths physically but also able to add to the kid’s inertia or inner strength as well as self-esteem on believing in themselves. Aside from this,  it can also help them develop their camaraderie in one team and improving their sense of sportsmanship. It is also a way of making them learn how to accept defeat wherein they can stand up again and strive to do better in future.

4.    Next, always encourage them to meet new friends. It could either be your neighbors or new friends from the nearby park and such. It can help your child develop the self-confidence needed to socialize and to communicate. At the same time, it will also allow your child to display his/her talents when you organize fun-filled activities such as singing sessions or any talent-time among the kids in the neighborhood.

The above 4 tips, when practiced to the fullest, will go a long way in helping your child gain their self-confidence.

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Low-carb? Low-fat? Study finds calories count more

by Tj Helm on 08,03,0909 in Health & Wellness

By ALICIA CHANG, AP Science Writer – Thu Feb 26, 4:15 AM PST

Debbie

 

Debbie Mayer, who was part of the clinical trial, poses at her home in Brockton, Mass. Tuesday, Feb. 24, 2009. Low-fat or low-carb, as long as your diet lowers calories and you stick with it, you can lose weight, finds a federal study that followed people for two years – one of the longest such comparisons. (AP Photo/Lisa Poole)

 

LOS ANGELES – Low-fat, low-carb or high-protein? The kind of diet doesn’t matter, scientists say. All that really counts is cutting calories and sticking with it, according to a federal study that followed people for two years. However, participants had trouble staying with a single approach that long and the weight loss was modest for most.

As the world grapples with rising obesity, millions have turned to popular diets like Atkins, Zone and Ornish that tout the benefits of one nutrient over another.

Some previous studies have found that low carbohydrate diets like Atkins work better than a traditional low-fat diet. But the new research found that the key to losing weight boiled down to a basic rule — calories in, calories out.

“The hidden secret is it doesn’t matter if you focus on low-fat or low-carb,” said Dr. Elizabeth Nabel, director of the National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute, which funded the research.

Limiting the calories you consume and burning off more calories with exercise is key, she said.

The study, which appears in Thursday’s New England Journal of Medicine, was led by Harvard School of Public Health and Pennington Biomedical Research Center in Louisiana.

Researchers randomly assigned 811 overweight adults to one of four diets, each of which contained different levels of fat, protein and carbohydrates.

Though the diets were twists on commercial plans, the study did not directly compare popular diets. The four diets contained healthy fats, were high in whole grains, fruits and vegetables and were low in cholesterol.

Nearly two-thirds of the participants were women. Each dieter was encouraged to slash 750 calories a day from their diet, exercise 90 minutes a week, keep an online food diary and meet regularly with diet counselors to chart their progress.

There was no winner among the different diets; reduction in weight and waist size were similar in all groups.

People lost 13 pounds on average at six months, but all groups saw their weight creep back up after a year. At two years, the average weight loss was about 9 pounds while waistlines shrank an average of 2 inches. Only 15 percent of dieters achieved a weight-loss reduction of 10 percent or more of their starting weight.

Dieters who got regular counseling saw better results. Those who attended most meetings shed more pounds than those who did not — 22 pounds compared with the average 9 pound loss.

Lead researcher Dr. Frank Sacks of Harvard said a restricted calorie diet gives people greater food choices, making the diet less monotonous.

“They just need to focus on how much they’re eating,” he said.

Sacks said the trick is finding a healthy diet that is tasty and that people will stick with over time.

Before Debbie Mayer, 52, enrolled in the study, she was a “stress eater” who would snack all day and had no sense of portion control. Mayer used to run marathons in her 30s, but health problems prevented her from doing much exercise in recent years.

Mayer tinkered with different diets — Weight Watchers, Atkins, South Beach — with little success.

“I’ve been battling my weight all my life. I just needed more structure,” said Mayer, of Brockton, Mass., who works with the elderly.

Mayer was assigned to a low-fat, high-protein diet with 1,400 calories a day. She started measuring her food and went back to the gym. The 5-foot Mayer started at 179 pounds and dropped 50 pounds to 129 pounds by the end of the study. She now weighs 132 and wants to shed a few more pounds.

Another study volunteer, Rudy Termini, a 69-year-old retiree from Cambridge, Mass., credits keeping a food diary for his 22-pound success. Termini said before participating in the study he would wolf down 2,500 calories a day. But sticking to an 1,800-calorie high-fat, average protein diet meant no longer eating an entire T-bone steak for dinner. Instead, he now eats only a 4-ounce steak.

“I was just oblivious to how many calories I was having,” said the 5-foot-11-inch Termini, who dropped from 195 to 173 pounds. “I really used to just eat everything and anything in sight.”

Dr. David Katz of the Yale Prevention Research Center and author of several weight control books, said the results should not be viewed as an endorsement of fad diets that promote one nutrient over another.

The study compared high quality, heart healthy diets and “not the gimmicky popular versions,” said Katz, who had no role in the study. Some popular low-carb diets tend to be low in fiber and have a relatively high intake of saturated fat, he said.

Other experts were bothered that the dieters couldn’t keep the weight off even with close monitoring and a support system.

“Even these highly motivated, intelligent participants who were coached by expert professionals could not achieve the weight losses needed to reverse the obesity epidemic,” Martijn Katan of Amsterdam’s Free University wrote in an accompanying editorial.

Cutting calories key to weight loss: study

Overweight patients cast a shadow at a weight reduction clinic. A new study has found that eating heart-healthy, low-calorie foods and exercising is the key to losing weight regardless of levels of protein, fat or carbohydrates.(AFP/File/Frederic J. Brown)

The research, funded by the National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute (NHLBI) of the National Institutes of Health, seems to argue against blanket use of diets that do not necessarily limit calories but call for eating certain foods such as vegetables or proteins, at the expense of others.

The NIH study of 811 volunteers, 38 percent of them men and 62 percent women, aged 30-70 and either overweight or obese, looked at diets that have been popular in the United States in recent years, even as the number of obese Americans has soared.

The “Preventing Overweight Using Novel Dietary Strategies (POUNDS LOST) study found similar weight loss after six months and two years among participants assigned to four diets that differed in their proportions of these three major nutrients,” said researchers.

“The diets were low or high in total fat (20 or 40 percent of calories) with average or high protein (15 or 25 percent of calories). Carbohydrate content ranged from 35 to 65 percent of calories.

“The diets all used the same calorie reduction goals and were heart-healthy low in saturated fat and cholesterol while high in dietary fibre,” said researchers, whose study is published Thursday in the New England Journal of Medicine.

Participants lost an average 13 pounds (5.9 kilos) at six months and maintained a nine-pound (four-kilo) loss at two years.

“These results show that, as long as people follow a heart-healthy, reduced-calorie diet, there is more than one nutritional approach to achieving and maintaining a healthy weight,” said Dr. Elizabeth Nabel, director at NHLBI.

“This provides people who need to lose weight with the flexibility to choose an approach that they’re most likely to sustain: one that is most suited to their personal preferences and health needs,” she stressed.

Sixty-six percent of US adults are overweight and of those, 32 percent are obese, Centers for Disease Control and Prevention data show.

By AFP – Thu Feb 26, 8:42 AM PST

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Personal Branding in Today's Market Place

by Tj Helm on 08,03,0909 in Personal Development

By George Metzger  

It works for entrepreneurs, professionals, celebrities and job-seekers. Almost everyone is beginning to understand that personal or self-branding is what will put them ahead of the crowd. 

If you are different from everyone else and you want to prove it to the world just create the personal branding of YOU. 

So what is self-branding simplified? It is a clear understanding of what your personal attributes will bring to a specific situation or job. It is what makes you unique and it is a clear and common identifier of what you stand for. 

Self-branding will differentiate between someone who is competent and even professional from one who generates a lot of business and income. 

So what if you feel secure and know that you are doing a good job? Does this mean your career life will always go smoothly? No, because there is always someone out there that wants your place so you have to fight for it. 

Many people have the perception that self-branding is phony. They don’t see that they are really that good at selling themselves. The facts are that those who do not self-brand will be branded by others. Maybe they will be perceived as lax or lazy about the importance of their career by not putting any effort into self-branding. If you allow this to happen then you are giving away your power to decide what your own self-branding will be. 

Branding is a process that is created to sell YOU. Famous people have been using this process for a long time to sell themselves. You know from this example that it works. And doesn’t proof that it works prove it to be an effective method? 

Now, you’ve decided to go about the process of self-branding you have to have a strategy to follow. 

Build your self-branding identity to highlight your best skills and personal abilities.

Make a marketing plan that markets the new brand of YOU.

Set personal brand goals for yourself and a time line in which to achieve these goals.

You are now on the path to all new brand YOU.

George Metzger is a business coach and mentor that assists serious entrepreneurs in building a profitable online business with multiple incomes streams. George and his team have assisted hundreds of people in generating profits that exceed $250K or more in their first year. For more information and to contact George, visit: http://www.buildafortuneonlinetoday.com
 
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